We could count all fingers and toes, and we'd still run out of digits to keep track of the number of times we've been told "but I'm not photogenic."
What does "photogenic" even mean? The textbook definition is defined as looking attractive in a photograph, but attractiveness is a broad and subjective term. What you're really asking is "Am I going to look as uncomfortable in these photos as I feel?"
We get it! Being directed to hold your limbs at a certain angle while obsessing over how you only have one good side is intimidating and quite frankly, uncomfortable, but here's the thing…
…you are here to adventure, to experience & explore the authentic joy of being in love, with yourself or another person.
These dreamy guys thought they weren't photogenic…
This babe thought she wasn't photogenic…
These sweet strangers weren't even expecting to be photographed, and look at them! (read more about that here)
You are responsible for enjoying the incredible adventure of marrying your best friend, finding power in self love and acceptance and celebrating in your unique magic! There is literally no other thing that is more beautiful than photographing your special brand of love. “Photogenic” doesn’t exist when pure unadulterated joy radiates across your face, when excitement and amusement bubbles inside your chest.
That pastel sunrise or gold tinged sunset are only backdrops to the outdoors adventure elopement or boudoir session, romantic hues that only illuminate the incredible badass that you are. “Photogenic” pales in comparison because you are living authenticity. Adrenaline, heart pounding, once-in-a-lifetime experiences.
That is what translates in photos.
When Rachel says, "Plant kisses all over her face!" or "Whisper something naughty in his ear,” she helps create these authentic moments of genuine silliness or pure desire between you and your person. You’ll barely notice the click of the shutter because you’ll be too busy enjoying the moment. Don’t worry, she’ll be busy immortalizing your light and love.
It’s okay to feel awkward…
and weird, out-of-your-element even. Honestly, we encourage it! Doing things that make you a little uncomfy can boast the most exciting and wonderful memories, and the thing to remember is that the discomfort doesn’t last. With us, it dissolves into fits of giggles. It gets thrown out with the generic posing, and becomes obsolete when you let yourself just have fun.
