4 Steps to Getting Married in North Carolina

North Carolina is a beautiful (and popular) destination for mountain elopements and intimate weddings, and it’s easy to get enraptured with the more glamorous planning details of booking your photographer and location scouting. Don’t forget the legal must-do’s so your special day goes as seamless as possible.

Step 1. Choose an Officiant

Whether you’re having a friend officiate your wedding or using an Officiant service, your officiant must

  • Be at least 18 years old

  • Be a minister, officer, or any other person authorized to solemnize a marriage under the laws of the State

  • Include a Declaration of Intent in the wedding ceremony


Step 2. Apply for a Marriage License

Conveniently, the state of North Carolina does not have a waiting period for marriage licenses, which means you can apply the same day that you head to your mountain elopement. You’ll need…

  • Both parties valid photo ID and social security cards

    • If you do not have a social security card, you’ll need to provide something with your name and full 9 digit Social Security Number, such as a W2, tax form, etc.

  • $60 application fee

  • To remember Marriage licenses in North Carolina expire 60 days after being issued (so don’t get yours too far in advance)

Buncombe County Register of Deeds

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Step 3. Grab a Couple Witnesses

The state of North Carolina requires that you have an officiant and 2 witnesses to your wedding/elopement. All three parties will sign the marriage license before returning to the same registrar’s office that issued the license. Make sure you…

  • Have 2 witnesses

    • 18 years or older

    • No, your officiant does not count as one.

  • Return the completed marriage license no later than 10 days post wedding ceremony


Step 4. Celebrate!

Now for the fun part, marriage. Exploring all the beautiful places the world has to offer and adventuring as you craft this incredible journey together. A certificate of marriage can be issued and obtained 10 days after the ceremony. More info here.

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